Arguing is good, you should argue more

Yes, you heard me right. Arguing, not rational discussion, arguing. Blasting at each other.

This is not for someone that erupts everyday, but the people that stomach everything.

I know, anger relieves your embedded emotions, cliche, hear me out though.

Just like politics, people’s opinions on socialisation are often on the extremes. You either become a super short tempered person in the defence of “provoking improvement”, or become a super suppressed person in the hope of “promoting harmony”.

Neither works.

You need to tread the line between the two, you can’t just go for one side.

If you blast at one another too often, hostility would build up. Bonds between you and whoever you value would break like wooden chopsticks.

If you don’t blast at one another at all, you would never know how the other person feels, and vice versa.

Can’t you talk?

You can explain ONLY the thoughts of yours – unless both the receiver and the deliverer of the conversation are very advanced in communication and the language – emotions can’t be conveyed.

If you erupt in your anger whilst talking about something, the listener realises that “something” is important to you. What…